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To seduce a woman, you must take her into
another world, a special world where only the two of you exist, a romantic
world, a poetic world.
Sometimes this happens automatically with a woman: if you've ever fallen in
love, you remember what it's like to feel like you are the only two people
who've ever existed. You probably also remembered that, in that state, she
really wanted sex. A lot.
Women feel special, just like anybody does, if they think someone has
done some preparation just for them. Cooking a meal, wrapping a little present,
or hand-making a card for her will all make her feel like you are sitting around
thinking of ways to delight her.
The key here is to do things that give the appearance that you are thinking of
her. When you do things to make her feel special and appreciated it will
increase her desire to put out for you.
The next time you really want to surprise your husband/wife as they come home,
go into the garage and tie a three foot string onto the bottom handle of the
garage door. On the other end of the string attach a card or lightweight
gift. When they hit the opener, the card will magically rise from the floor to
greet them as they arrive.
1. Create the time for love and romance in your relationship. Love making
can be put on the back burner too easily as time slips away from you. Couples
like this intend to get to it when life calms down. Like most people, you have
to make the time in your life for what’s important to you. If intimate time
together is important, create the time for it. If being spontaneous doesn’t work
out, block out time for a “love date” and don’t allow other things to get in the
way.
2. If you don’t feel like making love, honestly communicate with your
partner and yourself. This may sound simple, but sometimes it isn’t. Physical
ailments—real or imagined—are allowed get in the way of intimacy. There are also
times when you are just too tired and love making is not on your mind. Whatever
it is, let your partner know honestly and then make a “date” for a time when you
know you’ll feel better or have more time to connect with each other. If you are
really feeling disconnection from your partner, don’t use the old “I have a
headache” excuse. Honestly facing the issue with your partner can help you feel
better.
3. Focus on each other—let go of concerns about the kids or work. Wipe
extraneous thoughts, worries and fears from your mind when you come together for
love making. If this isn’t possible, let your partner know you need to clear
your head. Then go take a walk or do something that will help. You may also need
to deal with a particular issue or problem with your partner. Take care of that
first, then focus on the love you have for each other.
Drink in a sunset or sunrise. In our town, we have a bike path by the
river and it's a perfect place to watch the gorgeous sunsets that are happening.
The other evening, Susie just stopped and breathed in the beauty of the sky
colors. There was even a rainbow! Enjoy this vision by yourself or with a loved
one or friend.
When we are feeling good, open and expanded, we are loving ourselves and each
other more deeply. We feel a deeper connection with each other, we are more
understanding and not as judgmental, and we have more fun. Whether you resonate
with any of our ideas or not, take this opportunity to open and expand and try
some things that you might not normally do. If you do, we're sure that your life
will be a richer experience and your relationships will improve.
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